Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Bode turns 6!

A couple weeks ago, we celebrated Bode's 6th birthday...6! Holy cow! I can't believe he is 6!
I have never had a birthday party for Bode with friends, etc...I never thought he would like it or didn't understand that when you have a birthday you have a big party with all of your friends. Or maybe it is that he really didn't have anyone that he would want to invite to a party. Well the last year he really started liking his cousins, Coop's friends, basically older kids. He loved to be with them and play with them. And he was getting a little better with kids his age as well.

I decided that I was going to throw him his very first friend birthday party! Well because he had never had a party before, I went a little overboard and invited about 20 something kids, yes 20 something. Almost half of them were cousins and then a few were Coop's friends, and then some of the friends that are his age. I really wasn't sure how it was going to turn out, Bode doesn't really like crowds too much, and this was going to be a crowd.

I decided that we would do a Toy Story party, Bode loves Buzz and Woody!
We made the invitations that Bode absolutely loved! He carried it around for a couple days and he hand delivered each one (the walking distance ones).
If you notice on the bottom of the invitation, there is a disclaimer...I was trying to be silly, but I guess a little serious too. I wanted Bode to have all the attention, and I thought this may keep him in the room for a little longer than 20 minutes...it worked, kind of. :)



The kids arrived and Bode was having a blast with all of them downstairs. More and more came and he was still pretty good. We started to play games and he did pretty good, until he decided, "Whatever...I am going to my room and watching my own movie all by myself..it is my birthday, I will do what I want top." And that is what happened. Bode marched himself upstairs and turned on a movie and chilled. I think the thought of coming downstairs was a little terrifying at this point.
The party took place at Pizza Planet, so were were going to have pizza. Try feeding 23 hungry kids pizza...well it is possible if you have some help. Thanks Mom, Collin, Stacy and Hollie...I could have not done it without you! The kiddos were fabulous and Bode ate his yummy pizza upstairs in front of his TV, just how he likes it. :)
After dinner we did presents, I thought this would get Bode to come downstairs. I sure did.
Everyone was so excited to give him their present and we was so excited to open all of them. I was so great with each present, so happy! He received so many nice things!



After the presents we did a pinata (sp??) he loved that too. Too bad that we weren't even able to get through all the kids with it not breaking, that was with only one swing per kid.
After that we came up and did cupcakes, we sang Happy Birthday to Bode, he blew out the candles and then he was outta there!


The party turned out pretty great I think, Bode was pretty good for most of it and I think he did have a pretty good time.
We are so lucky to be surrounded by so many neat people that treat Bode so well. He is like any other kid to them. I think it was my little niece Emma that told her mom, "We are so lucky to have Bode as our cousin, it is so awesome!" (something to that extent) They accept him just like he is. Drew another cousin loves Bode and loves to play with Bode. One time my sister Hollie was tending and she was talking to Bode and asking him a question, and Drew told her "Mom, Bode doesn't talk." Like duh, mom...he isn't going to answer you. I love it, he knows he isn't going to talk but that is okay. The other day I was watching him and I caught him talking to Bode saying, "Bode, can you say patience?" Not sure where patience came from but he kept repeating it hoping that Bode would respond, an me also hoping that Bode would respond. :)
But thank you to all of you that make our little Bode's life better by being a part of it and accepting him and just being his friend. We are so grateful and he is too.

Happy 6th Birthday Bode boy! We love you!

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cute post Nat! Okay, here's the thing: Sometimes (like when we are working out in the morning) I forget that you have a child with special needs because you seem
A) So put together
B) So energetic
and
C) So Happy.
I am almost positive that if I had to deal with some of the stuff you have to deal with-I would be NONE of those things. But I guess it helps that Bode is just about the cutest boy ever! Sometimes I just want to walk up to him and squeeze him. Although I am pretty sure that'd freak him out. So I just gush over him from a distance:)

Anyway, I think your a fabulous mom and that you are doing such a great job with him. Anyone can see he is a happy little guy.

Summer said...

What a fabulous party!! Happy Birthday, Bode- I can't believe it's been 6 years, either!

Hollie said...

Wait Drew was asking Bode to say patience? Did I read that right? Love love little Bodester. Thanks for letting us come to the partay, it was fun.

Emily said...

Happy late birthday to Bode! I LOVE this... love that you gave him such a fabulous party!

SAH in Suburbia said...

This looks like such a fabulous party! You know how to make it happen. Hope Bode and all his crew had a wonderful time.