
The last week and a half I have been spending my days trying to potty train Bode...and yes we have been trying, we have not yet succeeded! I thought it was about time, he is 5 and I am honestly pretty sick of changing his adult size poops and buying diapers for him. My sister Hollie was kind enough to take off ALL of her week last week and come to my house and we could conquer this together! Well if it wasn't for Hollie, nothing would have been conquered. I would have given up on the first day...so thanks Haws!
So we started out on Monday, I started by putting him in training pants (the cloth ones with a little more absorbency than usual undies). Well it wasn't working, we would put him on the toilet like every 10 minutes and he wouldn't do anything and then he would just get off an pee his pants. So we thought we just need him to pee on the toilet so he can figure that is what you do. Well we didn't think it would take that long...literally, it took forever. Bode spent 3 hours on the toilet on Monday, yes 3 hours...his little bum had the red mark from the little seat he was sitting on. He would NOT go! Finally I was like whatever, I can't sit in this bathroom anymore, he is not getting it (we did take turns sitting in the bathroom so it was somewhat bearable). After the 3 hours I had it, I left and low and behold Bode gets off and pees his pants, he had to go so bad that Hollie and I both heard it from downstairs, it was loud and forceful. :) I was done for the day...hello diaper!
The next day we thought well let's do the same thing, except half way through the process (1 1/2) hours later, Haws thought well we know he will go if he is just standing up so why don't we let him get up and down from the toilet and if he starts going we will hurry and move him to the toilet so he can get the concept. Well another 1 1/2 later I can just see him doing the pee dance, he holds himself every now and again, I am continuing to push on his bladder...somewhere underneath that little belly of his and nothing...he is STUBBORN! Then finally he starts peeing, I jump up and pretty much scare him and he stops, then I put him to the toilet (standing up now) and he is hesitate but then he starts going! Yipee! Party thrown! Bode went potty in the toilet, somewhat! We were done for the day. :)
Next day we did the same thing, same time on the toilet maybe a little longer though, he starts going and I hurry and move him to the toilet...yeah day two he went again with the help from us moving him we he starts to weee. Done for the day! That is all we can take.
Well that night he came up to me and started patting his diaper, I asked if he needed to go potty, he starts taking off his diaper and we go to the toilet and he GOES! On his own he goes! Yes, that is the one and only time he has gone on his own. I was so excited, another party thrown for Bode! He was pretty happy too. Well 30 minutes later I asked him if he needed to go again..we went to the toilet he went. We were on a roll, improvement!
The next day we were excited to get started. He wouldn't go in the morning, but about 11 we got him to go again and we did it about every 30 minutes through out the day, he was doing great. Well that leaves us to today, I am still putting him on the toilet every 30 minutes and he will usually always go, but he will go in between too, so we still have wet pants and there is no Bode coming to tell me he has to go potty...how long do I have to do this until he realizes that he can do it on his own or hold it...I know he can hold it! He won't figure out the pooping on the toilet, he will still go in his pants and then he thinks it is fun to play in it and make mommy clean it up and clean him up...I had it yesterday!
So is this going to get better? Because I have done it for a week in a half now and I don't see ANY improvements. What am I doing wrong?? Help! Mommy is going a little insane (more insane than I already am, that is pretty scary). Any suggestions on how to close the deal on potty training a child with Down Syndrome would be fabulous. Thanks ya'll and sorry for the long post.